Speaking as another woman getting railed upon for not having a baby in her first year of marriage [I'm at year 2 and the pressure is mounting]: Don't do it. You know it is the most wrong time. While there is no "right" time, there are plenty of wrong times.
It is not a good time for you. Be with R. Love him. Let him love you. Be a married couple and work on that together. In 3 to 5 to 10 years, bring a child into your lives as you will be better prepared and more solid.
*hugs*
Zhaneel
PS: Which isn't to say *I* don't want one. See my recent g-blog postings about baby madness.
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It is not a good time for you. Be with R. Love him. Let him love you. Be a married couple and work on that together. In 3 to 5 to 10 years, bring a child into your lives as you will be better prepared and more solid.
*hugs*
Zhaneel
PS: Which isn't to say *I* don't want one. See my recent g-blog postings about baby madness.