2006-04-11

merchimerch: (Default)
2006-04-11 09:04 am

iyindo - this one's for you ;)

Hey, I just found a poem I like! And it's not by a Russian or one of the 2 or 3 angsty women poets I like (but rarely choose to read):

Those We Love, by Todd Pope

They say the world is round - and yet
I often think it's square,
So many little hurts we get
From corners here and there.
But there's one truth in life I've found
While jouneying East and West:
We flatter those we scarcely know;
We please the fleeting guest,
And deal many a thoughtless blow,
To those we love the best.

Boy does this hit home. I come from a long line of women who are on their best behavior for strangers and snip and snipe at those they love.
merchimerch: (Default)
2006-04-11 09:33 am

perfectionism

I found this yesterday and thought it was remarkably appropriate:

"Perfectionism is self-abuse of the highest order." Anne Wilson Schaef