Yes R is the one from livermore who just went to Uzbekistan and is married to me.

Feel free to friend me - I don't know if we've actually met, but I'm no good at decoding friends of friends (or friends of husbands) identities by online profiles. I've only been to dragon bytes a few times, but I feel like I've met and liked a lot of R's friends.

He does have a journal - its uzbekaemrys or something like that - you can look at my friends page. He hasn't exactly adopting a prolific posting style :)