why my LDR didn't work in a nutshell

[merchimerch]

http://xkcd.com/352/

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[thunderbox.livejournal.com]

hehe, yes that's my experience too.

[merchimerch.livejournal.com]

Yeah - I wish I could compartmentalize such that I can accept *hugs* in lieu of real ones in a primary relationship, but I just can't. I've got a strong tactile/kinesthetic lean in my approach to the world and it seems to me that it makes things worse for me in LDRs (though maybe I'm just being dramatic - they pretty much suck for everyone).