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merchimerch ([personal profile] merchimerch) wrote2008-04-10 03:21 pm

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a gentle reminder about the importance of boundaries and compassion from [livejournal.com profile] uncledark:

"Learn to say No, and to accept No with grace."

Thanks. That pretty much sums up a lot of the conflict that is going on in my various social and familiar circles right now. People who either can't say no gracefully, or receive a no gracefully. It's an art, that middle path between doormat and bitch.

(see his journal entry for a more fleshed out rant)

[identity profile] trooper6.livejournal.com 2008-04-10 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
wait...how do you know uncledark?

I friended him based on awesome comments he made in the roleplayers forum.

[identity profile] nisaa.livejournal.com 2008-04-10 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
I introduced the two of them. He's a friend of mine.

[identity profile] trooper6.livejournal.com 2008-04-11 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
What a small world!