housing angst

[merchimerch]

Oh the pain! I've been trying to do this in small chunks and forgive myself for not having something lined up, but man it sucks to find housing in LA as a couple. I didn't realize how easy I had it as a single chick. So many of the affordable options, like guesthouses are just too small for two. And R and I just cannot pay $1K a month - there is no way. So demoralizing. The funny thing is that the options that are too small, but look affordable, like guest houses and things were way out of my price range when I was single. I think I have learned that I just can't afford to live in LA, period.

*deep breath*

Something will work out - something has to work out.

Comments

[groblek.livejournal.com]

*hugs* good luck! Hmm, you might ask ellipticcurve if she's got any suggestions - one of the few people I know down that way, she's a friend from Pryanksters who moved down there - tell her I sent you.

[iyindo.livejournal.com]

I'm so sorry that you're having such a hard time. I wish that there was more that I could do to help, but I only have 2 weeks left on track and it's seriously crunch time. Between that and doctor's appointments, I'm in the doghouse! I'm sending lots of positive vibes, though!!!

[iyindo.livejournal.com]

Wait a minute... omg... I don't know why I didn't think of this... the CONDO. Would you and R possibly want to live there? There's a bus that picks up right around the corner and drops off at Hilgard and Westholme. Let me know if you would consider that.

[merchimerch.livejournal.com]

Hey, for some reason I am getting a return to sender message when I email you and your mom - I have no idea why UCLA webmail is not recognizing yahoo or adelphia, but whatever...

Anyway, I talked the whole situation over with R last night and he is really enthused. So much so that he's ready to start looking for work and classes in the valley. He also wanted me to let you guys know that he has experience evicting people, and if there is a month-to-month or casual arrangement with the guy who has given verbal notice, there is still time to get rid of him legally. R has experience moving unwanted stuff and changing locks, and looking imposing while saying "if you come back here or touch me, I will call the cops." He's willing to employ his talents for your mum, especially if it means we get a nice living situation.